Adult Swingers follow a life style that essentially gives him or her the chance of having multiple sexual partners without feeling any form of stigma that society may impose. The majority of societies in the Western world follow the format that the majority of citizens will be monogynous once they have undertaken a marriage ceremony and declared vows to their chosen partner. Adult Swingers do not adhere to this code of socially stigmatised form of conduct. They choose where and when they will have sexual relations with another likeminded person.
Before the advent of the internet it was extremely difficult for adult swingers to meet each other easily. The normal course of introduction was by invitation from an existing member of a swingers club. Failing this, it involved trawling through small ads in newspapers and writing copious amounts of letters. Initially a written approach would be made and if successful then it would be followed by the exchange of photographs and finally after several weeks or even months of correspondence a meeting would be arranged. It was extremely unlikely that the initial meeting would be followed immediately be a sexual encounter. It was necessary for all parties involved to gain mutual trust and respect before entering into sexual relations. This was a very time consuming process.
This would have made it almost impossible to calculate, with any accuracy, the number of adult swingers there were before the invention of the internet. Now that the internet is available to the greater masses it makes following a swingers lifestyle far easier and certainly more accessible to any people who have a leaning in that direction. Society has always labelled people that do not conform to recognised and generally accepted standards of moral behaviour. A woman that had many sexual partners was maligned whereas a man with many sexual conquests was considered a stud.
Adult swingers have begun to bring about a change in the way that these two labels are applied to individuals. It is highly likely that most readers will have met an adult swinger without even knowing that they are one. A colleague at the office, a resident in the street in which you live, the assistant in the local grocery shop or even your employer. Any of them could be a swinger. Adult swingers do not wear a badge they simply enjoy a very healthy sexual lifestyle which satisfies their physical wants and needs.
An individual or a couple that has an interest in becoming an adult swinger only has to take the time to do some careful research on the internet. There are now diverse websites that cater to all sexual tastes and proclivities and because a computer is a machine and not a human being there is no stigma attached to their research. The researcher can sit in the privacy of their own home and perform the research necessary without any other person being aware of it.
Contacts can be established rapidly and safely due to the rigorous vetting policies carried out by websites. The researcher can discover other adult swingers that are located in a given area and arrange introductions quickly and efficiently by using the telephone, email and webcams. Trust can be established and built on in a short space of time.
As each new generation reaches sexual maturity the stigmas that were attached to this lifestyle are rapidly changing. Each individual is free to explore their innermost sexual fantasies and questions. The issues of lesbianism, homosexuality and the swinging life style are being slowly merged. Each individual is free to make his or her own decisions about how they experiment sexually and with whom. They are equally free to make the choice of remaining faithful to one partner if that is their decision. Nobody is forced, when following an adult swingers’ lifestyle, to make choices that they are not entirely comfortable with. The final decision rests with the individual.